My First Solo Travel – A Journey of Self Discovery

I have always been an avid traveler, but there was one aspect of exploration that I never dared to venture into – solo travel. The idea of ​​setting out on my own, with no one but myself to rely on, filled me with trepidation. Countless questions swirled in my mind every time I contemplated it. Where should I go? What should i do? Is it safe? Ensuring my safety was paramount, and this fear often held me back. But that changed the day I decided to throw caution to the wind, strap on my backpack, and embark on a journey of self-discovery. In this blog, I tell you about my first solo travel experience and share my learnings and insights to help you plan your own trip.

My first solo adventure was a bit of a surprise, and it all started with my best friend’s wedding. Their wedding was in the enchanting city of Puri, nestled in the heart of Odisha. Initially, he had only planned to attend the wedding and then return home. However, fate had a different plan.

The day I was supposed to return, the skies opened, and a relentless downpour forced the cancellation of my flight. With no alternative flights available for the next two days, I had a tough decision to make – wait or embrace the unknown. Looking back, it was one of the best decisions I ever made. Those two unplanned days gave me an incredible opportunity for self-discovery, deepening my connection with myself and the world around me.

Unplanned travel and the magic of self-discovery

On the streets of Puri, I felt a mix of emotions – a cocktail of excitement and nervousness. The unfamiliar surroundings, the tantalizing aromas from the street food stalls, and the curious gaze of the locals added to my sense of adventure. Without a fixed itinerary and just for me, I feel a new sense of freedom. The rain, which once seemed like an inconvenience, has now become my ally, lending a mystique to the city. My journey got off to an unpredictable start, and it wasn’t long before I realized that solo travel was a trigger for self-discovery like no other. It pushed me out of my comfort zone and into a world of limitless possibilities.

As I delved into the charm of Bhubaneswar, one place stood out like a shining gem in the heart of this ancient city – the Lingraj temple. It is a masterpiece of Indian architecture, renowned for its detailed plan, perfect proportions, seamless joints, elegant craftsmanship and impressive dimensions. The exquisite sculptures of the temple represent the tasks of everyday life, offering a vivid snapshot of history. It felt more than a place of worship; it was a modern community center, which gives a glimpse into the lives of the people who built and frequented this sacred space.

Beyond the temple, the Bindusagar Lake located in the north, adds to the enchanting picture, providing a serene backdrop to this architectural marvel. As the day drew to a close, I could not resist the lure of the sunset at Bindusagar Lake. It felt like a magical experience, a perfect end to a day that was still being born.

Content and smiling, I made my way back to the hotel, eager to wake up to the sight of the ancient Temple of the Sun. Starting my day a little earlier, I embraced another adventure, aware that immersing myself in the local culture was essential. I decided to opt for the safest and most authentic mode of travel – public transport. The vibrant and bustling streets of Bhubaneswar led me to a charming bus station where I hopped on a local bus to the mystical destination of Konark. Bus travel became my adventure in Odisha.

Anticipation washed over me as I approached Konark, the sun rising over the ancient Sun Temple. This 13th century architectural marvel, designated a UNESCO World Heritage Site, is a testament to the incredible craftsmanship of a bygone era. Shaped like a colossal chariot with twelve intricately carved wheels, symbolizing the passage of time, the Konark Sun Temple is a living tribute to the art and devotion of its creators. While setting my eyes on this show, I also started my culinary journey through Odisha.

Culinary journey through Odisha

Odisha is not just a visual treat; it is a gastronomic paradise. From basic comfort food that fills your stomach, your heart and your taste buds, my journey through Odisha’s culinary landscape has been memorable. Whether it’s crispy kanji vada – lentil balls drenched in tangy mustard water – or tangy dahibara aloodum, or lentil balls served with yoghurt and hot potato curry, each bite was an explosion of flavors. Odisha’s vibrant street food culture isn’t just about satisfying your hunger; it’s a celebration of local flavors and a chance to connect with the people who create them. Whether you are a foodie or simply immersed in the experience, the street food of Odisha is a must-try.

Tips for a safe and exciting trip

Undoubtedly, my solo trip was exhilarating, but there were a few challenges that the reader should prepare for.

First, to ensure a safe and comfortable stay, it is imperative to scrutinize hotel ratings and reviews while making your reservations. For those like me, it is also good practice to inspect the room before committing to a reservation on site.

Your choice of transportation significantly affects your safety. So, opt for government operated services that are known for their reliability. If you plan to take an autorickshaw or a taxi, always confirm the fares in advance to avoid disappointment. While maps are valuable, don’t rely solely on them. Engage with locals for directions, as their insights often lead to priceless adventures and impromptu discoveries. While enjoying your new freedom, keep loved ones informed of your location for added security.

Always keep your phone charged, carry a trusted power bank, and manage your finances wisely. Never venture out without money; it is a necessity. Dress appropriately for the weather and respect local customs, both for respect and comfort.

Travel through time and self-discovery

My exploration of Odisha and its historical treasures allowed me to connect with its rich heritage on a deep level. It was like a journey back in time, where I could hear the echoes of ancient civilizations and understand the roots of our modern world. The vibrant colors and energy of the place spoke to me in ways I never expected. It was a reminder that solo travel isn’t just about self-discovery; it’s also a way to explore the world and, in turn, unlock the depths of your own soul.

My unexpected solo trip to Odisha revealed a world of possibilities and self-discovery through travel. It was a reminder that sometimes, the best experiences come when we step out of our comfort zones and embrace the unknown.

If you are considering a solo trip, we encourage you to take that leap of faith and embark on a journey of self-discovery. You may just find, as I did, that the world is waiting to reveal its wonders to those who dare to explore it for themselves.

(Poonam Malpure is an avid traveler and communications professional)

Disclaimer: These are the personal opinions of the author.